Today is our due date from our first miscarriage. In another time and dimension I should be holding my baby today. I sat dealing with the aftermath this morning from our second miscarriage and realized that today I should be dealing with the aftermath of having a baby. I should be holding a sweet child and resting from labor. But I’m not, we lost this baby months ago. And then last week learned we lost another pregnancy. I know I do not go through this trial alone. And I know there are others out there struggling. I share this so other know they are not alone and later some suggestions of ways to speak with and console someone who has miscarried.                           MY STORY We went in last Tuesday for our 10 week doctors appointment hoping to see a healthy little tadpole. After our miscarriage earlier this year I was so eager to see a happy little speck of life on the screen. But with four children we know what a healthy ultrasound looks like and as my husband and I stared at the screen there was nothing. There was a big space but no baby. We then went into a separate radiology … Continue reading Our Second Miscarraige – How to Talk to Someone Who Has Miscarried